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Polyamory dating for couples

Exploring polyamory or an open relationship together? Meet other couples and singles who share your approach, and take things at a pace that suits you both. Create a profile in minutes.

18+ only. Discreet and consensual.

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    How it works

    1. Step 1

      Tell us about you

      Say whether you are a man, a woman or a couple, and who you would like to meet.

    2. Step 2

      Create your profile

      Add your name and email, then choose a password on the next screen.

    3. Step 3

      Start meeting people

      Browse, message and arrange to meet on terms everyone is comfortable with.

    Polyamory, ethical non-monogamy and open relationships

    These terms overlap, and people use them in different ways. Here is a simple guide.

    • Polyamory

      Polyamory is about loving more than one person. Relationships can be romantic, emotional or both, and everyone involved knows about each other.

    • Ethical non-monogamy

      Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) covers any relationship style that is not exclusive, as long as everyone is honest, informed and has agreed to it.

    • Open relationships

      In an open relationship, a couple stays together as a main partnership and agrees that either of them may also date or see other people.

    Polyamory and open relationships for couples

    Go Polyamory Dating welcomes couples who are curious about polyamory, ethical non-monogamy or an open relationship, as well as couples who already live that way. You can join together or one partner at a time, and you choose what goes on your profile. Many couples start by talking openly about what they want, agreeing their boundaries and meeting other people slowly.

    Whether you are a couple opening up your relationship, a solo polyamorous person or simply curious about ethical non-monogamy, you can say what you are looking for on your profile. Some members want a new partner, some want to meet a couple, and some just want friends who understand polyamory and open relationships.

    Communication, consent and honesty matter most in polyamory and open relationships. Be clear about your boundaries, respect other people's, and take your time getting to know someone before you meet.

    Who joins Go Polyamory Dating

    • Couples opening up

      Partners who are exploring polyamory or an open relationship together, and want to meet others who are doing the same.

    • Solo polyamorous people

      Singles who are happy to have more than one relationship and want to meet partners who respect that.

    • People who are curious

      Anyone who wants to learn about ethical non-monogamy in a friendly space, with no pressure and no judgement.

    Questions

    Who can join in my area?

    Any adult aged 18 or over. You can join on your own or as a couple.

    Is it discreet?

    You choose what goes on your profile, and your details are never shown to other members unless you share them.

    I am new to polyamory. Is that fine?

    Yes. Take it at your own pace, be open about what you are and are not looking for, and only meet when you feel ready.

    What is the difference between polyamory and an open relationship?

    Polyamory usually involves emotional and romantic connections with more than one person. In an open relationship a couple tends to stay the main partnership and allows other partners, often for dating or sex rather than deep romance. The terms overlap, and people define them for themselves.

    What does compersion mean?

    Compersion is the joy you feel when a partner is happy with someone else. Some polyamorous people feel it often, others do not, and neither is wrong.

    How do I handle jealousy in a polyamorous relationship?

    Jealousy is normal and does not mean something has gone wrong. Many people find it helps to name the feeling, talk it through with their partners and work out what they need, such as more time together or clearer agreements.

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